Boundary after big D part four

[Ginger1]

If my kids called anyone else dad I punch somebody in the face.

It’s a joke. Haha funny. Hes famous. She will not be calling anyone but her own father “dad”

Calm it down LH

[LH19]

I’m calm. That was actually a fear of mine before D. Irrational fears definitely get the best of you during that time.

[Mach40]

I remember the first time my youngest ( step Daughter), she was 4.5 years old, asked if she could call me daddy. Her sister said nope, he is not your Dad.
Wife was kind of stunned. I guess it was a sign.

[LH19]

Sign of what?

[Mach40]

Sign of what?

My oldest step daughter was immediately not happy when my youngest asked.. She was mad that she asked..

[LH19]

Mach google Hypergamy.

[Mach40]

LH, when I married my wife she wasnt making as much as me. Now, with retirment and my job, I net more than she does.
But, if you are implying she is dating someone with a higher social status than me, I can ser that..
He is probably a broker in real estate or a lawyer.
I dont care anymore, to be honest. I am working to detach mentally from her, and I wont be friends.
I deserve better. I see that.

[LH19]

You got it man. Just trying to help with the whys.

[Mach40]

You got it man. Just trying to help with the whys.

Thnx. She had no idea what I made.
As far as her, I never saw her as a.gold digger, till her EA with Harvard guy. Turns out he was married too. Sounds very non commital. She said it was an out, a relationship that pulled her out of her self esteem slump. Regardless, It was an EA.

[LH19]

This stuff is actually very predictable when you really look at it through a lens.