So why don’t you think it’s possible to go back? I’ve always been taught everything is possible.
When I went back and read your opening thread I stopped when I read she said “she’s not attracted to you”. Didn’t need to read anymore.
I dont think its possible because of who she is.. When she makes a decision, she is 100% on it. There is no magic phrase, only action.. She sees it, and has stated it. I think deep down she is scared to vulnerable again. I know my mistakes, and they are imbedded in my brain like an Elephant. Cant see me ever doing stupid stuff like that. Our Communication skills are 1000 times better, but her heart is still hurt. She made comment years ago I was gaining weight, while in the service., and made comment I need to take better care of myself.. I did lose weight there. I was on Shore Duty, very lax, but when I went to another Command PT was intense, SDVT-1 for 3 years. Crossfit every other day.. She, as well as many others said I looked like Bruce Willis. I laugh, because someone in Italy made comment, a co worker and someone at the commissary called me Mr Willis.. Its funny, but, it was something we always thought was nice to let me know.. As She said, I rock the Bruce.. So, if women like Bruce, thats a good thing.
