This list describes me and who I have worked hard to be in my marriage, life, work, relationships.
I want to be this man.
Points 5 and 7 have been particular points that I have found difficult because I have resorted to control out of fear and am trying to not be that way anymore.
Point 10 is difficult because of pain and rejection.
Bonus point answer is “YES” but I do not yet have any evidence for W’s intention to do this.
You answered that pretty quickly....
That is if you were to compare a lifetime of building behavioral patterns from within them.
You may be correct in your assessment. I don't know you other than what you put on here.
I personally think that you are a pretty decent guy that is scared schidtless right now....
If I were to ask you those same questions, and you only applied them to behaviors displayed during your marriage.
Would those answers still be true ??
There are 2 ways of doing this Rock....
You can work through a failed marriage, and become whole, for the next relationship that you have ( which BTW, could possibly be with your current spouse).
OR
You can work toward just being a divorced guy working toward his next failed relationship...
Those are your choices....
So I will leave you with a couple more questions....
What are you so afraid of right now ???
Are you a person that you would want to have a relationship with ???
Oh...and BTW....
Originally Posted by rock
Bonus point answer is “YES” but I do not yet have any evidence for W’s intention to do this.
Make sure that you aren't holding her accountable for your actions and emotional decisions....
