I don’t have much to offer. My story is nothing like yours. I thing like many. I married a glaring red flag which I ignored due to my life circumstances. Married at 24, kid via IVF at 27, 6 months later he left me for his affair partner with whom he is married to this day. I am now 42, daughter is 15, he’s cheating on this wife now.
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That is what happened to you, not who you are....
Maybe that's the disconnect, when you live like all of that defined you, it brings you down.
When you live like that is what made you into who you are the majority of the time, is when you thrive...
