What most new male posters here do not understand until it is too late, is that the rules of the game have changed.
We all say it different ways. "You can't nice her back" and "You are being too soft" ect.
She has lost her attraction for you. If you want any chance of salvaging this marriage, the best thing to do is change your behavior by 180 in every way possible that is more attractive to women in general. Increase you masculine and decrease your feminine traits.
Gaining her respect is high on the list of the many things that has to happen. How do you gain respect? List out the top ways you believe will gain you respect. We can then give you feedback.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
