I tend to overthink.. I am trying to come up with phrases I can write down, to keep me focused daily. This forum has a wealth of great phrases and such. They are both my step children. Biological father was given many many opportunities' to be engaged with the kids. He just let it go. Last time my youngest saw him, she drove 1 1/2 to see him. She said it was like she was a guest, not a daughter. I think it was closure for her.. She was 20 when this happened. Her Mother and I never discouraged her, or her older sister to see him. He just has his own life and several kids with a few other marriages.. He is just not a good person, in my eyes. He lost an opportunity in life to have two daughters. I gained two daughters.. As my ex stated recently, when they get married I will walk them down the isle.
