She started texting me around 48 hrs before her flight home. (She had also reached out to me from time to time during the trip)
I was slow, friendly, brief and measured in my responses. She asked me about our special needs son we had conversations about him and his treatment plan. She asked me about my life and our family and I provided updates.
After she got home she has started started reaching out more to me now.
She started to talk about future plans with me and I listened and said I was open to considering and that I am really enjoying life now and have to consider what’s best for me at first she wasn’t telling me anything about her trip but then started to talk about it I listened. She went to 3 countries met up with friends that she had made when she had done a previous journey. Talked about sites she saw walks she went on etc. She did not mention OM at all.
So pretty decent conversations. I’m still processing a lot.