Now that the email has come, I called Lawyer too see whats the plan forward. I have one part of the divorce I am financially obligated too. I just need an account and routing number to do it. I havent responded to the email.. Not even sure what to say, other than validating the email and saying, okay, the name is not going to ruin me if she uses it or not. I dont want to get into a conversation per say, just need to know when to start sending money..