I went back to maiden name and I was going to hyphenate my daughters name. After all I gave birth, I had no way in our marriage ending and I hated that my daughter was going to have the same last name as the AP ( they got married)
In the end. I have maiden name, I would never change it again if I got married, I never hyphenated my daughters name because I didn’t want her to have to deal with that headache. The school has always called me Mrs. married name even when we weren’t because they just assumed.
And in the end, it’s just a name.
Its just a name. To her its her brand for her business more importantly. 7 years of hard work. She used her maiden name as her middle when we married.
I kept my XH’s name because I had started a new career with that name and didn’t want the hassle of changing. Had I seen the future to know I’d change again just a few years later, I would’ve gone back to my maiden name and stayed there. I took Sparky’s name when we married. If, Lord forbid, anything goes south there, I’m going back to my maiden name and never looking back. I recall my XH was livid that his first XW went back to her maiden name and he made a big deal about it being for the sake of the girls and having the same name as them. When I DIDN’T go back to mine he was livid that I kept his. F you, dude…you’re the one who cheated and left so whatever. I think that whole thing was just his being an a$$hat. Lol
Like G said, at the end of the day, it’s just a name. I have still lived more of my life as my maiden name than my 2 married names combined. I don’t hyphenate but when I get my Ph.D someday, my maiden name WILL be there along with my current married name, to honor my daddy and my family who have always been my biggest supporters.
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids
I went back to maiden name and I was going to hyphenate my daughters name. After all I gave birth, I had no way in our marriage ending and I hated that my daughter was going to have the same last name as the AP ( they got married)
In the end. I have maiden name, I would never change it again if I got married, I never hyphenated my daughters name because I didn’t want her to have to deal with that headache. The school has always called me Mrs. married name even when we weren’t because they just assumed.
And in the end, it’s just a name.
Its just a name. To her its her brand for her business more importantly. 7 years of hard work. She used her maiden name as her middle when we married.
As far as 180s, she stopped saying I love you, avoided conversations about us, was cordial not argumentative, laid low by not being too busy with me via texts/calls, never asked how she looked or if noticed changes, she was very nuetral.. Thats all I can think of right now that is in the 180 list.. But she did GAL, and moved on..
Mach this is what happens when B is dropped. This happened 5 years ago and you are still perplexed? She fell out of love with you and didn't want to talk about. She didn't care what you thought about her. She kept herself busy with other things. She was neutral/indifferent because she moved on. We all pretty much experienced this in one way or another.
