BL I think you need to learn how to flirt back when someone is flirting with you. What did you say when she said "that beard is working for you"? acceptable retorts: Do you want to feel it (wink)? Great because I grew it for you (wink). You have to have the back and forth. Not "what is your status"? That's not fun and playful. Like validation "flirting" takes practice or can come off creepy. Enjoy
Originally Posted by Ginger1
I think BL felt that she might be married and didn’t want to engage if she is. He didn’t feel comfortable flirting with a married woman
Ginger's right. Admittedly my game could use sharpening LH, but in this particular case she's obviously flirting and I'm uncomfortable with that if she's still legally married. It's apparent something is up in her relationship, but if they're just separated and not formally divorced I'm not interested in being part of that. I do like your acceptable retorts though...I'm going to keep those in mind for future interactions (with single women).
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21
