I went back to maiden name and I was going to hyphenate my daughters name. After all I gave birth, I had no way in our marriage ending and I hated that my daughter was going to have the same last name as the AP ( they got married)
In the end. I have maiden name, I would never change it again if I got married, I never hyphenated my daughters name because I didn’t want her to have to deal with that headache. The school has always called me Mrs. married name even when we weren’t because they just assumed.