The problem with standing/waiting is that her starting to date was probably like the B all over again. That is why GAL is so important because eventually your life is so great it doesn’t matter either way. The second most important thing is learning to be happy alone. That way you can walk away from anything that doesn’t work for you.
Yes it was. Worst part is daughters knew. FIL, Sil, Bil. Nobody said a thing.
The absolute saddest part of all my problems, mine, was IC didnt help a smidgen compared to this site. If I had had this site, the books etc on initial issue, we would still be married. I had zero support, knowledge, family, or friends that offered help. Even my Mother knew we had issues as wife spoke to her. Dang. Just damn.
