Thnx for the advice on OLD everyone. I will take it, and apply it..
What advice are you taking?
Originally Posted by Mach40
Hopefully I can start truly GAL when I get back to home.. This travel job I have had for years, imho, is nothing more than a way to run from everything I was dealing with at home, I use the term home loosely..
If you want your feelings to change you need to really start to GAL. IMO the people who struggle years down the roads still analyzing their M stink at GAL.
Originally Posted by Mach40
Divorce is/was so Final.. Never wanted it to end.
Nope. No one here on this board wanted it to end. I think you really need to dig down and figure out why 3 years later you are still struggling. When you do you will figure out this has nothing to do with your ex.
Originally Posted by Mach40
Been months now, and I have still not moved forward.
I think it's been years Mach.
Originally Posted by Mach40
Took her several years to move on too, so i know its not a quick thing to happen, and its not simple.
I think she moved on a really long time ago.
Originally Posted by Mach40
One thing always on my mind, big one, is why she could never forgive me.
Because she didn't want to forgive you. She didn't want to be married to you anymore and that was her ticket out placing the blame on you.
