Well thnx you two.. If I do OLD, I will try to make the profile be witty, low pressure, but exciting, something that makes them take notice. Thats all I can do..In our day and age there is a paradox of choices. If my profile picture isnt enough to at least stop them to read, then they are not worth my time. Why would I want to date someone that doesnt find me attractive. Men do it too. And we can not post pics or pm here(at least I cant), this is all I can do, as far as corresponding with anyone. But any advice is good. Yes, I am not over my wife, but am making leaps and bounds. All reminders, ie media is gone. At home, everything that reminded me of her is gone, in boxes, stored. With the exception of the house. Hard to sell and buy now with rates the way they are. I will be honest though, pictures dont always reflect the person true in person.. I see it with my ex. and many of her co workers. There pictures are old, or photochopped.. So, any witty one liners? A date doesnt have to be any more than that too.. Or it can be. We are a digital world, how 2 dimensional.
