I am wanting to make as statement that makes her feel like crap for what she has done, whether written or action. Nothing crazy, but something that when the holidays happen and I am not there, that she will feel it. The kids will be there, her Dad. But I wont..
So Mach if I am hearing you correctly you admit that you were the main cause of your D. If that is the case it sounds like your EXW has forgiven you and moved on. Why not extend her the same courtesy?
I am with ya.. My wife has not forgiven me. She straight up said she has never forgiven me for Hawaii. Hawaii was 2005-2010 era ( Married 2004 went on US Navy deployment, came back moved them all to Hawaii). Not sure how she can live with me for so many years after that and such. Maybe she just did it for the kids, sacrificed her life for them. Only she knows the answer there. I regret so much. So much. Zero understanding of what I was doing, as far as being married. Couldnt communicate, neither could she, even though she may have tried. Just never could, even with her super educated and writing skills. If you want to more, I am more than willing to divulge.
