Just finished reading No More Mr. Nice Guy. I wish I had read it a month ago. It's me to a T. I've been struggling with being decisive and taking charge, mainly out of fear. Fear of making W upset, fear of divorce, fear of causing tension in the house. The advice here has helped me acknowledge how ridiculous these fears are and this book reinforced much of the advice I've been getting here the past few weeks. Anyone struggling with these same issues, I'd highly recommend reading it.