Lol yeah fun bags is MLC 101 my ex got them 2 years before BD. Since it was half my money I asked for one in the divorce lol.
So om2 I suspected (she’s so obvious) but didn’t confirm until like 2 years ago. By the time I suspected om2 I was exhausted and wasn’t going through the ringer again.
I honestly think single parenting is easier. Your house your rules and you don’t have anyone over your shoulder micromanaging.
I can’t stress enough that you will be fine either way. One thing I would suggest is that you don’t let her just slide back into the marriage if it comes to it. She’s either all in or all out.