I was trying to figure out what to do and it turns out I just needed another 12 hours of patience and the problem was resolved.
This is a good lesson for LBS. Sometimes we spend all this time and mental energy trying to work things out, choose the right solution, analyse what they’ve said/done … and then it all just resolves itself and we realise we’ve wasted bucketloads thinking about it.
Remember this next time you are wound up or trying to analyse or solve a problem - 99% of the time, it will solve itself.
You’re better off letting things happen and instead spending your time doing GAL and having fun. Even in the middle of a divorce, the world keeps turning.