We also briefly discussed setting a plan for boundaries/schedules/time with the kids the other day. This will be a good opportunity for me to take the lead on those actions.
You split the cookie and let her pick:
H:"Do you want to split the weekend with the kids,One parent gets Sat, the other Sun? or alternate weekends?"
H:"Do you want to include Friday night as part of the weekend with the kids?"
At this point, I do not believe you should quibble over which way to split. You just stand firm that you both should have equal parenting time. The goal is to reduce confusion by having a schedule that is predictable. Let her know that you are willing to be flexible and are willing to negotiate exceptions as they come up, as long as you are given reasonable notice.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
