No response to my text. I don't plan reaching out again until her bday next Wed. Figure I'll ask if we can meet up that weekend. It's as good of an excuse to meet up as there is right now. If it's a no, that might be time to throw in the towel. Or at least go no contact for good.
she responds to my text.
The next text she sends should be an answer to your question. Your texting goal is to close an in person date.
I would be assessing how enthusiastically she is pursuing you for an in person date.
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