LH19, you are very wise. Sandis story was a great story I really read about. Any other that you may know is close to mine? I was the major cause of it, and yet I never saw it. Was very comfortable in my mind set thinking everything would just magically work out, with zero real effort. I now have a major tool box of items to make a marriage/relationship work. Not full proof, but serious assistance to make it work out.
