I’m not saying you have to… but have you thought about buying the downstairs bed for her? Something to consider. I know I couldn’t sleep in the same bed as someone engaging in an affair.
Originally Posted by DW17
Kind18 - No I haven't thought about buying the bed for her, but I'll consider it.
Originally Posted by Ready2Change
If you do buy a new bed, you might as well buy one you want and give her the old one. Just a thought.
Originally Posted by BL42
I get the psychology / strength aspect of it, but wouldn't waste your time making her life easier and more comfortable. She's a big girl; she can fend for herself. You spend that bed shopping time in the gym instead. Maybe have an air mattress from Amazon...let her sleep on that!
Lots of choices. Evaluate the options. Make a decision. Execute the plan. Live with the consequences (good or bad).
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