My best advise for you is to listen to LH19 (not the sarcastic comments). He knows what he is talking about.
Originally Posted by Tarheel
I want her back. I struggle with 2 approaches:
1) She now knows how I feel. That I've changed my view on kids and want them with her. She took a week to think about it and replied no. Maybe just going silent and giving her more time to think is the way to go. If she wants to move forward with that scenario, she'll reach out to let me know.
2) Now that she knows how I feel, I should continue to communicate with her to show her my intentions are real and not made in a moment of loneliness. Reach out occasionally with small talk in hopes that she eventually can't envision a future without me.
Approach 1 is what my gut says
Number 1.
Reaching out with "small talk" will get you (I mean keep you) into friend zone.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
