Spiral,

Originally Posted by Spiral
She filed a request to dismiss the divorce petition. I decided not to object. The court dismissed the divorce proceedings.
Just to clarify...you're still married and there are no more divorce actions before the court?

Originally Posted by Spiral
I think she's still planning to get married to OM or at least that's what she tells people.
How does this align with the above? I could see not doing bothering to further the process, but she actually took action to stop the proceedings? Is there any financial component to keeping the status quo, or has your separation drawn a line in the sand money-wise?

Originally Posted by Spiral
She says everything is still perfect in paradise with her, OM, and our children half of the time. As far as I know it is. I wonder if OM knows.
Yeah...very odd situation.

Originally Posted by Spiral
I have moved on with my life.
Let me know if your model has a friend - I'm up for a double date.


Me:39 Ex-W:37
M:7 T: 9
S:6 D:3
BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20
OM1 affair ends: May '20
W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20
W files for D: Jul20
OM2 confirmed: 9/2020
Divorced: May '21