I think you need to ask yourself why if you are not a mean guy you couldn't pull the trigger on the happy birthday and be 100% honest with yourself.
You make a good point. I think my mind is still in the hopium phase. I waited for years to have her come back, when in reality she was already well on her way and moved on. So, I still try to be nice and am thinking of us getting back together.. Now, since I have been on here as of a few days ago, I am seeing more of the light. It just takes some guidance, which I appreciate it..
