I’ll readily admit that this comment comes from a place of not being overly familiar with your story, but why bother texting at all? She knows it is her birthday, she has people to love and support her, she “fired” you from that position, so not sure why you would. Like I said I’m not super familiar with your situation as I’ve not had the time to go back and read it all but I would think you’d be better served to just let it go. Just one very uninformed person’s opinion…….


Me 52, H53
Bomb drop 9/29/2014
Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014
Marriage #2 12/31/2019
5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships)
6 grandkids