Living with a WAW

[Ready2Change]

I have banker boxes full of my communication with my X. Here is how I read the Emails/Texts. Things in red are red flags. DO NOT RESPOND. Document the truth. I would be keeping detailed notes on what really happened. It is a PIA, but you can give your journal to your legal team if/when needed to counter her claims. Document every interaction you have with her, and with the children. Times and dates. Key moments. Good and Bad. DO NOT BE ALONE WITH HER.

The things I strike out you ignore. The Bold you think about, agree with, then respond to after a certain amount of "thinking".

W: You have lost your mind, do not ever come at me like that again. You legit triggered a panic attack and I haven’t done anything wrong! It has been clear that we are still here for the kids and you say one thing one day then come at me like this another day! I literally can’t handle the mental abuse anymore. Pinning me into a corner and demanding information out of me is not the way to go.

W: Nope, now it’s time to let everyone know who you really are. I owe you zero explanations of my life other than my kids. This is not your house, it is mine as well…the bed, the couches, everything. If you would like I can make things more difficult for our children and go stay with (girl friend who lives 30 minutes away) if that is easier but as far as owing you any explanations of anything in my life other than my children, do not communicate with me. You have just lost me 100% friend and all. Thank you for making me late for work.

Always get legal advise, but I would respond today with:
H:"I have thought about your idea and I agree that it would be best if you go stay with Girlfriend"