Originally Posted by LH19
Originally Posted by Mach40
Its good to hear from people here that have succeded in moving forward. My ex seems to have.
Mach your ex has moved forward because she probably started about 3-5 years ago and has never looked back. You haven't moved forward because you haven't tried yet. Her dating I think is finally made it real to you that she has moved on.

Originally Posted by Mach40
My only issue , problem, is I have no person to talk to here, as my life revolved around work, and what family I did have. No real friends at all. Cant talk to BIL either.
Have you looked into meet-up groups?
I have not looked into meet up groups. When I get back from AK, i am going to Church, non denominational. Just to get some spiritual guidance.
My ex is a super planner. She has been planning and executing her departure and move on for easily 5 years.
She also didnt persue divorce as it would have hindered the kids lives. I think she stayed on for youngest to get into college, and oldest needed help after grand baby was born. Stayed for the kids, even though in separate homes.


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