Ex B day is Thursday. Card or not? Simple good bye letter in there, or just let it go altogether?
Don't write a good bye letter. You'd just be stirring things up. At this point let it go. I don't think you need to wish her a happy birthday at all, but if you're going to do something I'm with LH on a simple text.
Originally Posted by Mach40
Deep down I want her relationship to fail, terrible isnt it.
It's not terrible; it's completely natural. Almost every LBS and probably many WAS/WSs have that very thought at times.
Originally Posted by Mach40
My oldest seems to be stressing out about me. She is worried about me doing something rash like moving away. She is in a bad relationship and her daughter and I are very close. I am the grandpa that is going to end up helping raising her. I dont think she understands her Mother will also.
Are you thinking of moving away?
Originally Posted by Mach40
I have removed all items, pics etc that remind me of her in my home. Slow process...Funny how our brain works, as it process's negative stuff more efficiently, probably so you know not to do it again. But, you dont forget.
Removing these things is a great way to process through.
How's your GAL going?
Not going to move. I was thinking of moving westa few hrs away, but its not economical or a good idea right now. I am working on gal. Slow. Been going out more, more walking trails oit here to get healthier. Knees recouping.
