Ex B day is Thursday. Card or not? Simple good bye letter in there, or just let it go altogether? Deep down I want her relationship to fail, terrible isnt it. My oldest seems to be stressing out about me. She is worried about me doing something rash like moving away. She is in a bad relationship and her daughter and I are very close. I am the grandpa that is going to end up helping raising her. I dont think she understands her Mother will also.