...we can maintain some level of communication up until....
There are better "tactics" to "win" her back.
Obviously you know her better than we do, but from the research I have done, talking and texting gets you into the "friend zone" quicker. You are also now competing with at least one other dude. Your only goal is to set an in person meetup.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712