Guys...they live 8hrs away from each other. They can't just agree to meet up at some wine bar tomorrow night.
Who says it has to be tomorrow night? I am trying to keep him from friend zoning himself.
I agree w/avoiding the friend zone. Just saying due to the extreme distance it's likely some phone or video discussions would happen first, as opposed to a quick date plan in person.
Tarheel - I would strongly recommend against the grand gestures of reversing the vasectomy and/or selling your house to "show her how committed you are". Imo it's more likely you'd move there to find out she's been dating someone for 2 months than a Hollywood reunion & happy ending. You dated a long time and she knows what you mean to each other. She's either going to find someone else or get frustrated with the dating pool and reach back out. I think it's even likely you haven't heard the last of her. But I lean more towards LH and R2C in the move on and scarcity creates value vs. the kml and Traveler wooing her with gestures approach.
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21
