Originally Posted by DW17
These interactions make me feel like I’m doing something right. It’s only been in the past week or so that I’ve stuck up for myself instead of living in fear of upsetting her. I assume it’ll take W a little time to adjust to that, but it’s nice no longer walking on eggshells in my own home.
You are one of only a handful of newbies that have made the correct changes quickly. Good job. Keep it up.


You are getting great guidance. Re-read your thread and solidify the advice into your new way of behaving.


Do not let fear control you. Trust you gut feelings. She is gaslighting you. Do some research on restraining orders.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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