When If I can be am strong and focus on myself, I wont shouldn’t have a problem accepting that W will be gone every Saturday night to Sunday morning and be on her phone all day. I already prepare for it weekly anyway, which is why I knew she would try and bail after the bday party. I guess I just got weak because I wasn’t doing anything for myself which caused me to slowly focus more on W’s actions.
Fixed that ^^^ for ya.....
Originally Posted by DW17
So would your recommendation be that I bring up the topic of W moving in with her friend or just not say anything?
My advice would be to NOT ring any bells that you can't un-ring.....
Same as... stop asking questions that you don't want the answers to....
You are only a doormat IF you feel like one....
For now, who GAF what she is doing....place the focus on cleaning your side of the street....
For now....YOUR 'boundary' is your quicksand....
And until you can decide 100% what that is...
It's either your demise or your success....
You are so focused on what she is doing that you can't see the progress that you've made on yourself....
That's the reason that cars have such a large windshield and a small rear view mirror....
