I mean that I will tell her that if she doesn’t want to be in a relationship with me, I think it’s best that she move in with her friend while we figure out what the next steps are.
Originally Posted by "LH19”
Why do you feel like you're a doormat?
Thinking about this question is helping me see what my flaws right now are. I feel like a doormat because I am living with a woman who is most likely having an affair, whether physical or emotional, and I am at home trying not to upset the apple cart or say anything negative, not sleeping enough, venting to the few people who know what’s going on every chance I get and feeling like I’m being taken advantage of by my W. I’m taking care of everything for my house, pets and kids with no help from her while she is free to do and say anything she wants to.
But that mindset is where my problem lies. It sounds like a weak person who needs to go have some fun and GAL. There were a few reasons (bday party and college prep) that I didn’t do anything this weekend and that likely contributed to me focusing on the wrong things. I will make plans for this weekend before the end of the day.
Originally Posted by "LH19”
How do you think time away will help fix it?
I worded that poorly but I meant that time apart will either makes things better or it won’t and I can’t control that.
