Originally Posted by DW17
Feeling like a doormat is rough. I've been wanting to stick up for myself and tell W how I feel about everything, but it goes against the DB rules.
Stick up for yourself through actions, not words. Don't have a long R talk whining about her cheating and how it makes you feel. Plenty of us have gone down that road and it rarely if ever works. Instead, take action! What if you helped pack up her stuff and have it ready for her when she comes home from work?

Originally Posted by DW17
Time apart will either help with separation, or help fix it, but either way it should help me ignore things and sleep better.
It's a toss up with the former, but 98% chance it'll help the latter.

Last edited by BL42; 10/03/22 03:21 PM.

Me:39 Ex-W:37
M:7 T: 9
S:6 D:3
BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20
OM1 affair ends: May '20
W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20
W files for D: Jul20
OM2 confirmed: 9/2020
Divorced: May '21