LH19 - I'm not really sure what I was looking for either. Maybe a 2x4! I agree about her leaving. Having my nose rubbed in everything on a daily basis because we live together is not healthy for me and it's going to affect my kids if it hasn't already. I have doubts that she will actually go to her friends house as she's failed to take action on anything for the past 4 months, but I'll push for it.
Feeling like a doormat is rough. I've been wanting to stick up for myself and tell W how I feel about everything, but it goes against the DB rules. The status quo doesn't feel like it will work though. Time apart will either help with separation, or help fix it, but either way it should help me ignore things and sleep better.
