BL42, Thnx for the comments. Yes, its all fresh and it hurts/angers me. You are very well grounded and understanding in your statements. I think this may have been the catalyst to move forward. I dont like the way I feel right now, and I have been acting like her dating would never happen for some time. Now its a reality.. I am going to be needing advice on what worked for people, and what didnt.
PS, I will ask the mods to move together and delete. Thnx