LH is right….what you feel is normal so don’t sweat yourself about it. Nearly 8 years post divorce and I STILL don’t want to see my XH’s new spouse or spend time at functions with them together. I will if I have to, for the sake of my kids, but it will never be my preference. I don’t care to know the new woman or have a conversation with her. You seem to be handling it all pretty well, in my opinion.


Me 52, H53
Bomb drop 9/29/2014
Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014
Marriage #2 12/31/2019
5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships)
6 grandkids