Yours is one of the first stories I followed when I found this site before I started posting. Your W had an affair with a guy at work. You guys tried to reconcile but your W never got her feelings back for you. If you don’t mind giving an update on what she is doing now?
Yeah you can’t win her back. That only happens in Hollywood. You stated your case and now you have to give her space to think and miss you. It’s going to be horrible for her to start over again at her age. Very slim pickings as most of the good guys that want a family are taken. It may take a little time but I’ll bet she reaches out.
Not cool what you did to her BTW. Messing with a woman who wants children is a major deal my friend.