I can unequivocally state communication is the most important thing in a relationship. If you dont ask for the salt, and sends the pepper, thats on you. And her for not asking, are you sure? This forum has helped me realize the errors in my ways, and the Divorce Remedy book.. One thing that isnt discussed is counseling prior to a marriage.. I never had it. Nobody.. I knew zilch about being married, and I jumped into a divorcee with 2 kids. One despised me.. It was caustic for quite sometime. I could go on, but I was the major contributor to the failure of my marriage. Weird thing though, the kids love me hysterically, says the EX. Even the one who hated me.. Ex gave up years ago, followed the WAS exit strategy, planned and executed.. She is super successful now, and dating.
