Just a little update.. Went to see FIL yesterday after IAN came through South Carolina. He lost power, is 80. Just had to check on him. Nobody asked and he lives a 1.5 miles away. Anyways, he was making mention of his daughter, my ex, was expecting/wanting us to be friends, especially with all the B Days and holidays coming up. I said, nope. Her B day is this week, then Thanks giving, Oldest daughters B day, Christmas... Nope. Talked to daughters and they are okay with separate holidays and such. With one exception. My youngest grandbaby.. She is going to be six. She and I are very close, closer than her own Dad for example. When I walk into the room, she levitates to me.. So, Kids think we need to both be present for the B Day.. Thoughts? I know ex is seeing someone, and I dont want anything to do with seeing him, as it will just really hurt and anger me..
