Wolfman,

Just wanted to say I give you a lot of credit for coming her to share your situation, solicit feedback, and improve on yourself and your relationships. It's not easy to hear what people are tell us sometimes, so the fact you're still here and open to it and not ducking the punches is a big positive.

My advice is to work on listening/empathy, strive for the 6 months of selfless love actions suggested without expectations of transactional benefits, and continue working on yourself over that time...see if that helps your situation.


Me:39 Ex-W:37
M:7 T: 9
S:6 D:3
BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20
OM1 affair ends: May '20
W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20
W files for D: Jul20
OM2 confirmed: 9/2020
Divorced: May '21