Wolf, although I've left this forum, I wanted to offer you some parting thoughts
Sigh.... Someday someone is going to actually mean it when they say these words.
Originally Posted by Traveler
You've received constructive criticism here about improving your relationship, but also unconstructive criticism harping on how you dated too soon after marriage and got her pregnant.
So as Don pointed out a lot of newbies start reading surviving the D forum while going through their divorce. So this is a good place to see what happens when you don't put in the work or follow the "rules". We had this poster who will remain nameless who started dating his/her friend jumped right into the ILUs. So we "harped" on how you shouldn't date your friends and to take it slow with the ILUs until you find out if your really compatible. He dumped her because he/she didn't like how he/she ate hotdogs or something I can't quite remember. Anyhoo we thought he/she learned his/her lesson but than started dating a friend and jumped into the ILUs and then dumped he/her when she couldn't pay her vacation bill.
Sooooo this is why we "harp" on things so at least when the poster doesn't take the advice/2x4s etc. Readers might.
