Originally Posted by LH19
Originally Posted by Wolfman
I think we have very different expectations in this relationship.
What do you think are her expectations in this relationship and how do they differ from yours?
wrong question.

he needs to focus on his ecxpectations and ask her to do the same exercise - write them out and sit down after a period of serious reflection on the subject and then have the real discussion. anything else is pure speculation and keeps the focus off him doing the hard work.


M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver