Usually people project things that they struggle within. A person who comes across as judgemental to others... is usually far more judgmental with their own actions inside.
The same could be said about people who usually need to feel right all the time. It usually stems from an environment where "being wrong" came with consequences. How do you talk to yourself when you are wrong? Do you beat yourself up? Do you extend yourself grace?
Perhaps answering this could take away a few "guesses" and become reasons why you respond the way you do. And once you know the reason - you can work on it.
M(f): 40 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.