Wolfman moving forward 4

[Wolfman]

First off.....

I still don't believe you....

And you are gonna come back and tell me that I am wrong....

Then I am gonna come back and point out how my perception of you isn't wrong...

Then you will come back and say "fair point", then argue that I am once again wrong, even though you admitted that there could be truth in it....

(Hey, kinda like your relationship huh ? )

So can we skip that, and go to the part where you start to see how your actions and behaviors have lead you to this point, and things can start getting better ???

Cause I told you that this would happen.... ^^^^

And it reads as if it is just another trick in your bag to manipulate the situation...

Words are only words until the actions match....



So, if you are serious...


Why do you feel the need to be "right" ???

What would that look like to your partner when you feel compelled to be "right" ???

What behavioral patterns does that also facilitate ??

Superiority ??

Judgment ??

Argumentative ??

Condescending ??

Who wouldn't want a relationship with that ???





You tell me....


Are you a person that YOU would want to be in a relationship with ??

I don’t know why I need to feel right. I guess I want to feel heard, that I can make the right decision. Growing up I guess my mom always told us what to do and we never had any say. That’s all I can think of. I just hate being wrong. It feels like a loss, and I don’t like to lose. To my partner it probably looks argumentative. I wouldn’t want to be in a relationship where someone always wants to be right. Gf says that to me too. I always want to be right. Ugh. Mach you are good. How do I fix that. I guess what I am asking, if there is a situation where I feel I am right how do I stop myself from arguing? I do explain my point of view? Ugh I feel so lost today.