This is why you take your time to get to know someone before cohabitating and knocking them up. This sounds awful. Feel really bad for your children.
I was thinking these exact thoughts then read them here from LH. Imagine being this child and having your family ripped apart and divorced while you’re so young. That’s bad enough but then you have to compete with new people vying for your fathers attention and further taking him away. Yes, the damadge in this case is done but pointing it out might help others. What a mess. And life altering for the child. So sad.
DonH Midwest Me 56 WAW-EXW 55 Met 11/95 / Married 5/00 Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06 4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D
