Hi DNJ - I appreciate your comments as always. Thank you! 🙂. It has been aggravating but I hope no more. It’s aggravating to see this after watching, seeing progress, and silently cheering and hoping he would recover despite not wishing for a reconciliation. I just hoped he would somehow find a way to dump this trashy woman. I would be fine if he was with a decent woman who didn’t scheme to destroy his marriage. But not this one.
I find this aggravation falls outside of forgiveness somehow. My forgiveness is still intact but my desire to know him anymore is gone. I will stop watching and cheering (or booing).
Thank you so much for your wise comments.
Hi Adios,
I can fully relate to the fact that you have difficulties with this particular woman. Not only because she is a trashy woman, but definitely also because this one was the affair partner.
So I only wanted to add that I too had a lot of trouble with this fact. Every time I heard that they gave it another chance I could be very angry with him. However, I can only say that this feeling too will pass. Mind you, I will never accept her, I don't have to, but my anger is gone because I actually see him as a very weak person. And the reason they stay in such a toxic relationship is simply because they can't handle a normal relationship, they feel way too guilty, so they think it makes it easier for them to choose for such a relationship, when of course we know better.
