Hi DNJ - I appreciate your comments as always. Thank you! 🙂. It has been aggravating but I hope no more. It’s aggravating to see this after watching, seeing progress, and silently cheering and hoping he would recover despite not wishing for a reconciliation. I just hoped he would somehow find a way to dump this trashy woman. I would be fine if he was with a decent woman who didn’t scheme to destroy his marriage. But not this one.

I find this aggravation falls outside of forgiveness somehow. My forgiveness is still intact but my desire to know him anymore is gone. I will stop watching and cheering (or booing).

Thank you so much for your wise comments.